A not so differential issue..

As you folks proceed to read it i suggest you to have an open mind before i evaluate everythin im about to say...
First thing first Ive been highly influenced with Michael Gurian's brain research techniques that are still quite debatable..though quite powerful n innovative in their own regarding gender differences when it comes to their emotional n cerebral quotient but by this it never implies im biased towards one particular gender or hyping for a sorry disparity between the two. Let me be very clear that im dead set against it. Wot im talkin of is an eternal difference that sets apart each one's existence but sadly it sometimes leads to an unfair n unvirtuous disparity..

So wid all due regard n reverence to all those feminists n not so feminists n anti feminists as well, this has nothin to do wid your very own altruistic sentiments..Things like race, age n appearance are all aspects of our physical identity but gender is the prime factor in defining wot we are n how we are perceived. For instance a man n a woman can look at exactly same thing & find somethin exactly different..
Gender has a powerful influence on the way we manifest our feelings n emotions..

Its a fact that boys are more easily angered n gals are slower to anger. A typecast gal will feel niceness is somethin that brings praise and protection n loudness of anger is something to stay away from. In order to be a so called "Good gal" soft spoken n not causing trouble, ...Liability is very necessarily somethin to take care about not hurting feelings or triggering anger.

Gender tells gals avoid conflict, to make things pleasant n to be nice. No fostering of the courage just the suppression of the confrontation. She is supposed to be pretty, shapely n able to attract attention by her looks..if shes not that attractive she must be more subservient. Manipulation not confrontation is the cultivated exercising of power for the stereotypic female.

Then there are the gals who spurn the stereotype n rebel against it. They imitate aggressive male behavior n define power in terms of anger n intimidation. They rely on ridicule to establish their position n taunt others who represent the female role they are rejecting. Emotional outbursts often in the form of clamour n violence are a natural outgrowth of the unfair response n treatment they receive.
On the other hand boys who fit the stereotype for acceptable male behaviour feel they rule the world. If they are smart n handsome they can assume they are superior to others n keep exhibiting that through their hoity toity ways. They can become overweenin..arrogant..manipulative or dominative.Their talent n charm can become an excuse for lording it over others. Feelin superior they can demand respect but not once think they need to give it too.

Accountability is not at all admissible to them cuz they endorse this stereotypic belief system. Their birthright is superiority with impunity.
Males often talk n act aggressively..even violently.Its an accepted expression of boys 'coming of age'. Masculinity is tied to aggression. To be a man is to be in charge. To be gentle is to be a wimp, a weak excuse for a man, an object of derision n ridicule.
We must realize that to speak of fairness,integrity n equality we must attend to gender and how it affects the way we approach personal power n vulnerability.

The iniquitous society which we live in is all responsible for the deplorable dissimilitude between the two but its us who form the society..n we need to bring that change in our mindsets. A fair resolution that brings with it a greater understanding n respect for each other will allow us to meet n join together with integrity n intimacy. Respecting each others differences is a means of recognising the similarities..None is the best n none is the worst..Its just that both are different..

Reality is for people who lack imagination...

No smoking..(X)

As i have quitted smoking for good..So obviously I find it quite irritating( or say tempting:-D) as some buddy of mine pulls it on right beside me..You guys better read this for yourself..This one is for you all..Cheers..!!:-) mate smokin is the residue of your pleasure:-(..It contaminates the air, pollutes my hair and my clothes not to mention my delicate lungs..n this all takes place without my consent...btw i too find my pleasure in one thing..I love beers..n mine residue of pleasure is urine..would u be annoyed if i stood on a chair n pissed on your head n on your clothes without your consent...:-P